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<\/a><\/p>\n\u201cWhether it is World War II or Korea or Vietnam, there is this automatic sense of understanding,\u201d Contee said. \u201cWhen they see the uniform, their eyes perk up. If they can speak, they speak. But if they don\u2019t speak, it doesn\u2019t matter. It\u2019s all been said.\u201d<\/p>\n
As a volunteer with LightBridge Hospice and Palliative Care, 2nd Lt. Michael Contee performs honor ceremonies for veterans who are on the last march of their lives. In his full dress uniform, Contee kneels at the patients\u2019 feet for a few words of thanks, followed by a sharp salute.<\/p>\n
In hospitals, convalescent homes and bedsides all over San Diego, Contee presents military men and women with tokens of a country\u2019s appreciation. In return, he gets a world of thanks.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know that my father has ever been singled out by the military, and I am so honored that they have done this,\u201d Willis\u2019 son, Floyd, said after last week\u2019s ceremony, which took place in the family\u2019s Chula Vista living room. \u201cMichael was so respectful, and he was very adept at intuiting what my father needed. He was saying just enough that Daddy could grasp.\u201d<\/p>\n
A native of Oahu, Hawaii, Contee was on track to be deployed to Afghanistan last summer. But his deployment was delayed due to the drawdown, so he decided to find another way to serve. Remembering how his grandmother benefited from hospice care, he started researching local hospice organizations and ended up contacting LightBridge. Within a few days, LightBridge drafted him for veterans\u2019 duty. Which, as it turned out, was more of a privilege.<\/p>\n
\u201cI love old people. I just love \u2019em,\u201d said the gregarious Contee, who majored in history at Quincy University in Illinois and is currently a manager at Chuze Fitness in Mission Valley. \u201cThey\u2019re wise, and they tell you what they want to tell you, and they don\u2019t care if you accept it or not. It\u2019s an amazing feeling when you make that connection. I have to smile. You can\u2019t not smile.\u201d<\/p>\n
Before they embark on hospice work, LightBridge volunteers are trained in the delicate art of aid and comfort. They learn how to deal with dying patients and grieving families and how to keep the process from taking its toll on their own emotional health. In Contee\u2019s case, he also learned that helping patients through these final chapters doesn\u2019t have to be a sad story.<\/p>\n
\u201cMost of the time, it\u2019s not tragic. One guy got seasick (during his service), and that\u2019s all he wanted to talk about. Another guy\u2019s plane crashed in the Pacific during World War II, and he was rescued by his own brother. That was an amazing story.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen someone passes, it\u2019s never easy. It\u2019s how you deal with it,\u201d he continued. \u201cYou think your life is crazy, and then you hear about this man being shot down and rescued by the person he loved the most. When you hear that, you realize that anything is possible.\u201d<\/p>\n
Like many LightBridge honorees, Imel Willis is frail and battling dementia. But when Contee appeared, the fog seemed to clear.<\/p>\n
Maybe it was the uniform, which inspired Willis to open his eyes and comment on Contee\u2019s sharp appearance. (\u201cThe first thing he said to me was, \u2018You look good,\u2019\u2009\u201d Contee said with a grin.) Maybe it was the ceremony, a short, heartfelt affair that ended with a salute and a blessing, followed by cake and coffee in the dining room.<\/p>\n
And maybe it was the man in the uniform, who always makes sure his shoes are shined, his face is clean-shaven (bye-bye, goatee) and his heart is in the perfect place.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe is always willing to make the sacrifice,\u201d said Tauna Austin, LightBridge\u2019s volunteer coordinator. \u201cI\u2019ll call Michael and say, \u2018We\u2019ve got this guy who is dying, can you do this right away?\u2019 and he will do it. He\u2019s got a great sense of humor and a great smile. Not everyone is generous with their smile.\u201d<\/p>\n
Contee isn\u2019t sure what his military future holds. Maybe he will be deployed, and maybe he won\u2019t. But his future with the men and women who served before is not up for debate.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou reach that age when the light clicks and you realize that life is about something more than you. I\u2019ll keep doing this as long as they\u2019ll have me.\u201d<\/p>\n
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