As we are discovering, there are often things we want to do but ArcGIS is not able to do them. Esri has created a Tool Gallery for people to share tools they have created when ArcGIS cannot do what they want. If you are thinking about creating a tool to do something you need, it is worth checking here first so that you don’t have to re-create the wheel.
http://resources.arcgis.com/en/communities/analysis/
http://resources.arcgis.com/gallery/file/geoprocessing
Thanks Dori! This is a helpful resource.